Comments on: When Your Husband Watches Porn: A Path to Choosing Grace

By: Vale L

Vale L — Wed, 08 Oct 2025 19:48:11 +0000

Hi! I am actually not Christian but my boyfriend is and this past few days I have tried to do my best to navigate this as best as I can, I have cried A LOT and felt so lost not knowing what to do next, this blog has help me to see things so much clearer and finally give my mind some direction on what to do. Thank you so much

By: Tiffani

Tiffani — Mon, 19 May 2025 14:40:17 +0000

Thank you so much for this insightful and spirit led article. I am a young married woman, I am also recently married. I had no idea how to cope with or handle my husband’s struggles. And the world kept sending harsh messages of abandoning my marriage, which at some points felt very tempting. I love how your message was Christ- centered and reminds us how to be like Christ in these difficult times. There was such a feeling of relief and peace reading your message. Honestly I think this article has impacted my life and marriage in such a good way. I wish you and your family all the best.

By: Lulu

Lulu — Mon, 24 Mar 2025 03:01:29 +0000

What if my fiance does it over and over again after you forgave him and prayed for him?

By: Anhelica

Anhelica — Sat, 15 Feb 2025 13:52:31 +0000

In reply to Andrea. Thank you so much for this article, I felt I was on my last straw with my husband because he keeps falling into this sin. But the information you shared helps me look at it in a different way and I’m praying one day I’ll be on the other side of it and my husband be completely set free from watching porn. Fighting every temptation like a worrier for God. He will be a man of God who can fight off each and every temptation with God’s help. Thank you so much your article was encouraging

By: Yuki

Yuki — Tue, 29 Oct 2024 16:37:40 +0000

My partner gave up porn a year ago after he got caught. He sincerely wants to change, and we both downloaded an accountability app. Recently, he’s been getting the urge to watch again; he watched a few inappropriate videos on Youtube and even subscribed to it. Covenant app can’t detect this videos; I found out by searching his YT history. By the grace of God, it didn’t make me angry like it normally would. I was hurt because he didn’t tell me about his relapse. After reading this article, I talked things out w/ my partner and expressed the pain I felt inside, and deep concern for him. We’re both going to continue fighting this battle, with the help of God. I pray everyday. It doesn’t get easier, but my heart feels better each and everyday the closer I get to Him.

By: Melissa Mathers

Melissa Mathers — Sun, 27 Oct 2024 02:01:16 +0000

In reply to Andrea. I discovered pornography on my husbands phone a while back and it’s been happening off and on for months but Iv noticed that when he and I have an argument or if he’s mad about something, that’s when he looks at pornography but he doesn’t know that I know that he’s looking at it and I’m honestly afraid to even confront him about it. All I know to do is pray and ask God for guidance and what I should do.

By: Hannah Guzman

Hannah Guzman — Thu, 17 Oct 2024 05:35:44 +0000

I honestly think the phrase that “men are visual creatures” is incredibly frustrating. If this were true, they would be known for being detailed in all other visual aspects like cleaning the house, designing, decorating. However, they are not, and I believe God made us all equally visual. In fact, I would argue that women may be more inclined to appreciate visual aesthetics. I think the correct term is that men are more vulnerable to sexual stimulation.

By: Canti

Canti — Sat, 20 Jul 2024 03:21:39 +0000

What if my husband recently confessed an affair, and I have caught him speaking with other women via phone, and on top of that I recently found out he has been watching porn. It’s been pretty overwhelming in the past three months.

By: Ashley

Ashley — Sat, 02 Sep 2023 15:37:17 +0000

In reply to Miranda. Hi Miranda! Thank you for your comment. I recently updated this post with a section on this at the top. I also linked another website that handles this kind of situation as well. I hope that helps! -Ashley

By: Miranda

Miranda — Wed, 28 Jun 2023 00:21:27 +0000

I wish someone would tackle the problem of a husband caught watching porn and says they will get help then doesn’t. And is caught repeatedly. What can a wife do then?