Comments on: When Your Husband Watches Porn: A Path to Choosing Grace

By: Lulu

Lulu — Mon, 24 Mar 2025 03:01:29 +0000

What if my fiance does it over and over again after you forgave him and prayed for him?

By: Anhelica

Anhelica — Sat, 15 Feb 2025 13:52:31 +0000

In reply to Andrea. Thank you so much for this article, I felt I was on my last straw with my husband because he keeps falling into this sin. But the information you shared helps me look at it in a different way and I’m praying one day I’ll be on the other side of it and my husband be completely set free from watching porn. Fighting every temptation like a worrier for God. He will be a man of God who can fight off each and every temptation with God’s help. Thank you so much your article was encouraging

By: Yuki

Yuki — Tue, 29 Oct 2024 16:37:40 +0000

My partner gave up porn a year ago after he got caught. He sincerely wants to change, and we both downloaded an accountability app. Recently, he’s been getting the urge to watch again; he watched a few inappropriate videos on Youtube and even subscribed to it. Covenant app can’t detect this videos; I found out by searching his YT history. By the grace of God, it didn’t make me angry like it normally would. I was hurt because he didn’t tell me about his relapse. After reading this article, I talked things out w/ my partner and expressed the pain I felt inside, and deep concern for him. We’re both going to continue fighting this battle, with the help of God. I pray everyday. It doesn’t get easier, but my heart feels better each and everyday the closer I get to Him.

By: Melissa Mathers

Melissa Mathers — Sun, 27 Oct 2024 02:01:16 +0000

In reply to Andrea. I discovered pornography on my husbands phone a while back and it’s been happening off and on for months but Iv noticed that when he and I have an argument or if he’s mad about something, that’s when he looks at pornography but he doesn’t know that I know that he’s looking at it and I’m honestly afraid to even confront him about it. All I know to do is pray and ask God for guidance and what I should do.

By: Hannah Guzman

Hannah Guzman — Thu, 17 Oct 2024 05:35:44 +0000

I honestly think the phrase that “men are visual creatures” is incredibly frustrating. If this were true, they would be known for being detailed in all other visual aspects like cleaning the house, designing, decorating. However, they are not, and I believe God made us all equally visual. In fact, I would argue that women may be more inclined to appreciate visual aesthetics. I think the correct term is that men are more vulnerable to sexual stimulation.

By: Ashley

Ashley — Sat, 02 Sep 2023 15:37:17 +0000

In reply to Miranda. Hi Miranda! Thank you for your comment. I recently updated this post with a section on this at the top. I also linked another website that handles this kind of situation as well. I hope that helps! -Ashley

By: Miranda

Miranda — Wed, 28 Jun 2023 00:21:27 +0000

I wish someone would tackle the problem of a husband caught watching porn and says they will get help then doesn’t. And is caught repeatedly. What can a wife do then?

By: Anna

Anna — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 22:14:44 +0000

I’m feeling sad, angry and hurt. But at the same time is a mix of those feelings and I want to cry so bad, but I’m trying not to cry because this crying will make me feel so bad and will not help me. I pray for more than 8 years for someone special, I choose to dress like a woman of God while since the beginning he watches porn. I’m speechless in some way I just found and I was trying to find something in internet about God’s Word. Why I would like to know Why he watches another women in this situation

By: Andrea

Andrea — Sun, 29 Aug 2021 16:18:53 +0000

wow…yesterday I discovered Porn on my husbands phone. He apparently said he has always struggled with it and started feeling the temptation again. I’m hurt. I’m angry. I’m feeling betrayed. We haven’t spoken about it but we will today. And I’m nervous. I’m nervous of the great impact this will have on our marriage as I have Always seen pornography as an act of adultery.

By: Heather

Heather — Tue, 26 Jan 2021 16:18:56 +0000

What if your husband doesn’t tell you he watches it and doesn’t want to change? He feels like he doesn’t get what he needs from our marriage, so he’s supposedly ok with getting it by watching porn.